Do not worry about whether you are successful in achieving a deep level of relaxation. Maintain a passive attitude and permit relaxation to occur at its own pace. When distracting thoughts occur, try to ignore them by not dwelling upon them and return to repeating “one.”
With practice, the response should come with little effort. Practice the technique once or twice daily, but not within two hours after any meal, since the digestive processes seem to interfere with the elicitation of the Relaxation Response.
*Or any soothing, pleasant sound, preferably with no meaning or association, to avoid stimulation of unnecessary thoughts.
I have a few favorite apps that can help get you started.
- Calm
- Insight Timer
- Do yoga with me